Take Care of #1
You've heard this one before, but not from me. Because when I say take care of number one, I'm talking about your lover. Who else would I mean?
But a lot of lovers make sure their needs are taken care of first, and these are the ones who don't deserve a return engagement.
For guys this means, primarily, take your time! Why is it that after five minutes of kissing you're ready to get your cock sucked? I talk to my mechanic longer than that when he's changing my oil for Pete's sake. I'm not saying there aren't times when you're both tired and want to get down to business, but make this the exception, not the rule. Do you want to be thought of as a good lover? Then here's what you've got to do:
- Take your time. Kiss her tenderly, rub her neck, her shoulders, her breasts, and move down to her lower back. There's not a lady in the world that doesn't love to be caressed.
Give her the oral sex of her life. Make sure she cums at least once before you even think of your own pleasure. Lick her clit and find her G-spot – her moans will be your reward.
When she's sucking your cock, tell her how good it feels, give her encouragement.
Do not, I repeat, DO NOT cum too quick. Take it slow, stop every now and then when you feel you're going to cum – changing positions is a natural way to do this – but give her at least a 10-15 minute ride on your bony express.
When you finally do cum, be a gentleman, and be tender. Get her a tissue first, if there's anything to wipe off. Kiss her and tell her how nice it was. Be honest.
Ladies: Do you want to please your man? A couple of tricks:
Take care of him. Tell him things like, "baby, you make me want you so much." We all like to be mentally – and physically – stroked.
Worship his cock. Lick it, look him in the eyes while you stroke it. Moan your approval when you suck it, rub his wet cock all over your face. Place it between your tits and titty fuck him, looking him in the eyes and whisper, "I'm going to take good care of your cock baby. You're going to cum for me...more than once." It's beyond hot knowing she wants your cock badly and wants to make sure you cum over and over.
- Moan like a porn star when he goes down on you. It's the greatest motivation and eventually becomes second nature – helping you get into it even more...
Well there we have it, six steps towards making your sex life all it can be. Are these the only six steps? I doubt it, and you may be doing some or all of these things right now. I hope you are, or that I've reminded you of the things you used to do and got away from. Get back to them. There's nothing finer, mentally or physically, than connecting with someone on an intimate level. You should do it as often as you can – it's what life is all about. Best of luck to you, and thanks for reading.
|